Sincerity.

Let me explain. When I got my first job out of grad school, it was through an agency. My work was spread out over several towns. I rarely went to the main office, but every paycheck had the boss’s signature and a sticky note saying “Thanks for your great work”. I had no doubt that she had little real knowledge of what I did, but I loved my work, so laughed at her comment.

I help out where and when I can at UU of Concord. I don’t feel pressured. Sincerely. When someone sends me an email, a text, or tells me in person that they appreciate what I did, I believe them. When you know someone is being sincere, it really means something.

One event for which I have often helped is the Tuesday evening Welcome Table. Rev Leuchtenberger sincerely opens the doors to all, with no need to call ahead or sign up, to sit down and have a vegan dinner made by him, with the sincere understanding that you are under no obligation to help and you can leave when you need to. Sincerely. I particularly love the story telling. A question is presented and the microphone is passed around. There is no expectation to say anything if you don’t want to, but the set up makes it so when/if you talk, everyone listens. Sincerely. You are heard.

When I am in an environment based in sincerity, I feel safe. I feel unafraid to be me (especially at the great dances!) I feel grateful. I make mistakes, but veryone else accepts that I am human, so we work it out. Why can’t the rest of the world be like this? It’s not a game. It’s living life more fully. Sincerely.

 ~ Betsy Kennedy